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Always Apologize!
Posted by: | CommentsI don’t know if you’ve read any of my posts on my new blog called Letters for My Daughters (where I’m writing a series of life lessons to pass on to them as they make their journey from home to life on their own), but I wrote one the other day on the title above and thought I ought to address the same idea (not the same content :-) with you.
Why? Because it’s a mistake I see a lot of leaders make (i.e. they don’t apologize–or apologize enough–or apologize soon enough) and they all pay a price for that. It doesn’t matter if you’re the President of the United States or the CEO of a global company (BP anyone?) or the Senior Pastor of a large church or the Managing Partner of a large law firm or the Executive Director of a Non-Profit/Association or the Owner of a five person professional services firm. Most leaders don’t get this–and it’s a mistake.
In the post to my daughters I mention that Leroy Jethro Gibbs (the main character on NCIS if you don’t watch the show) is wrong. His opinion is that apologizing is a sign of weakness and you should never do it. I respectfully disagree. Apologizing isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. And great leaders get this.
In Marshall Goldsmith’s wonderful book on leadership, What Got You Here Won’t Get You There (which is a must read), he makes the following statement,
“I regard apologizing as the most magical, healing, restorative gesture human beings can make. It is the centerpiece of my work with executives who want to get better.”
Now, lest you try to brush past this statement quickly, you ought to know that the CEOs Marshall coaches are Fortune 500 CEOs. On the list of the Top 50 Thinkers in Business, he’s number 14. In other words, when Marshall Goldsmith says that the centerpiece in his work with executives who want to get better is to help them learn how to apologize, that’s worth paying attention to.
For years, I’ve taught leaders this same idea–that they should apologize freely and frequently. Why? Because relationships matter. If you’re confident as a leader, then you have the strength to apologize and don’t need to worry about self-preservation or ego. And the amazing thing is that when you do apologize, relationships get stronger and the problem is usually eliminated right then and there.
However, when leaders don’t apologize everything gets worse. Relationships get strained and often sever (and, frequently, for life). Conflicts increase. Trust is broken. Sides are taken. Commitment decreases. New problems arise. Productivity decreases. Etc. In other words, nothing positive happens when leaders choose to not apologize. I’ve literally watched organizations shrivel all because a leader or group of leaders at the top weren’t willing to apologize for what they had done. Amazing!
But apologizing isn’t only the right thing to do because of relationships, it’s also good business practice. For example, in a study at the University of Michigan’s Health System, when they opened the doors for doctors to apologize for a medical error guess what happened? Lawsuits didn’t go up–they went down–and in half! In addition, awards went down as well.
“Apologies for medical errors, along with upfront compensation, (reduces) anger of patients and families, which leads to a reduction in medical malpractice lawsuits and associated defense litigation expenses,” says Doug Wojieszak, spokesman for The Sorry Works! Coalition.
Furthermore, on a practical level, I’ve watched this for years. It’s always been my practice to apologize as quickly as possible. Now, frequently, the issue isn’t over something you’ve actually done wrong, it’s their perception of what you did wrong. In those cases, you can apologize for what it has communicated to them or how it’s affected them. “I’m sorry that when I said … it communicated … to you. That was not my intent at all. And I am truly sorry that it’s negatively affected our relationship.” Apology made. Apology accepted. Conflict ended.
So as you look at your work place and relationships, are there some relationships you need to restore with a long overdue apology? Or is there a decision that you’ve made that has had a negative impact that you haven’t owned up to? Just apologize. And from this point forward, make it your policy to apologize freely, frequently and fast. You’ll be amazed at the impact. Plus, you’ll have just made, “the most magical, healing and restorative gesture a human being can make!” Who can argue with that?
To your accelerated success!
P.S. Yes, there are a few instances where you haven’t done anything wrong and you shouldn’t apologize, but, in general, your default position should be to take responsibility and restore relationships whenever possible.
Why Does Your Team’s Execution Fail?
Posted by: | CommentsI just finished leading a management training session for one of my clients on, “Execution: The Art and Science of Transforming Intention into Reality.” And the one section that probably had the most discussion for us as a group was my first point on realizing why good strategies, tactics and projects often fail in their implementation.
In other words, before someone starts adding something to the mix to improve execution/implementation,
they should first eliminate some of the things that are currently hindering successful implementation. As a typical INTJ, I had a list of 15 hindrances in my notes, but to encourage some more group interaction I decided to ask the leader/managers present to break into groups of three to four people and come up with their own lists of items or issues that hinder execution in their company.
Without betraying confidences, I’m going to combine some of their ideas with some of mine to help get your brain kick started. For example,
- Too many “priorities“ (or conflicting priorities)
- Lack of specificity on the details of who’s responsible for what
- Not enough communication (or unclear communication)
- Lack of trust
- Interruptions
- Poor prioritization of what matters
- Departmental conflicts
- Lack of accountability
- Fear of accountability
- Limited people/resources
- Lack of personal responsibility/commitment
- The complexity of a project (or its size)
- Lack of executive attention
- A tendency to over-analyze (analysis paralysis)
- Lack of ownership
- Lack of excitement about the project, etc.
Now, think about this. If some of these issues are present in your organization, what do you think the probability is that your people are going to execute well? Probably somewhere between zero and nil. It just isn’t going to happen.
Therefore, one of the first places to make changes, if you want to make sure that your team executes better, is to eliminate some of those hindrances. And what I’d recommend is to take this question to your team,
”What hinders us, as a team and company, from executing better and faster?“
Have them brainstorm, while someone writes their ideas on an easel pad (my guess is that ideas will come rather fast and furious–after all, they’ve been thinking about these for years :-). Then, once you have a list, discuss what are the top three hindrances that, if eliminated, would have the greatest impact on increasing our ability to execute.
Then I’d take that list and work, as a team, on creating a plan to eliminate your top three hindrances from your company/organization (i.e. don’t try to fix everything at once. Start with a few items and then expand as you eliminate the current “three”).
Remember, execution doesn’t have to be rocket science. But it does have to be done. So make the list, reduce the list, and then start eliminating the items on the list. Because it’s going to be difficult to create an environment/culture of execution when there are a number of hindrances competing to ensure that execution doesn’t happen.
To your accelerated success!
P.S. You did make that list, didn’t you?
Will You Keep Your High-Potential Employees This Year?
Posted by: | CommentsWhile our natural tendency is to think, “Of course!” that’s not always true. In fact, Harvard Business Review recently ran an article on “How to Keep Your Top Talent,” that featured a number of rather fascinating statistics about high-potential employees. After studying 20,000 employees dubbed as “emerging stars” over six years in over 100 organizations around the world, Jean Martin and Conrad Schmidt concluded that …
1 in 3 high potentials employees admits to not putting their all into their job- 1 in 4 believes they’ll be working for another employer by the end of the year
- 1 in 5 believes that their personal aspirations are different from what the organization has planned for them
- 4 out of 10 have little confidence in their co-workers and even less in the senior team
In other words, there may be more trouble out there than you see (or are acknowledging). So, what should you do? Well, here are a few thoughts, all of which could be summed up in one phrase,
Don’t treat your thoroughbreds the same way you treat everyone else!
1. Give them challenging assignments. High-potentials get bored easily and tend to disengage accordingly. However, they love a challenge. So keep throwing them stimulating projects where they know they can make a difference.
2. Give them access to you. High-potentials want contact with the person at the top–and not just occasionally. They like knowing they have access to the “king” (or “queen” :-). Relationships build far greater loyalty than anything else. So, invest time in them. Talent development should always be high on your agenda!
3. Give them inside info. Let them know they know things that not everyone else does. And share your future ideas and strategies with them. In other words, make sure they know that they’re not just getting the same information that everyone else in your company is getting.
4. Give them lots of freedom. Thoroughbreds don’t like to be harnessed. So, don’t try to control or contain or limit them. Give them as much autonomy as possible to get the job done. Thoroughbreds flourish when they get to make the calls. Yes, they’ll make messes. But they’ll also get your company where you want to get faster.
5. Give them more. Give them more recognition. Give them more money (or other forms of compensation). And give them more assignments. High-potentials thrive in an environment where they’re given more–so make sure you give them what they want.
Forget “fairness” and “equity.” Jefferson was wrong. We’re not all created equally. We all have equal worth and value as human beings, but we don’t all have the same skill sets and abilities. Nor does everyone on your team have the same impact on your business or organization.
So, who are you high-potentials (along with your current top performers)? And what is your plan for each of them this year? Remember the stats above. You just can’t assume they’ll always be with you–or that they’re giving you all they can. They do have more. And the better you are at releasing that more, the better you and your business will do! And the longer they’ll be with you!
To your accelerated success!
How to Reduce Conflict on Your Team Before It Happens
Posted by: | CommentsAs you know, every team has conflict. To find out one of the best ways to ensure that everyone on your team “fights fair” when conflict does arise, you’ll want to watch the following video clip.
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Alex Bogusky Is Wrong! Leaders Should Learn More From Failure
Posted by: | CommentsIn a video post on the Fast Company site, Alex Bogusky, co-chair of Crispin Porter + Bogusky,
argues that the classic business mantra of learning from failure is just plain wrong. In his world (and at his company), he doesn’t debrief failure or lost accounts or why a campaign isn’t working (which I find hard to believe). Rather he wants to focus on successes not failure because he thinks that learning from failure creates a culture of fear.
Moreover, he states that when his company loses a bid or contract, he simple throws away any vestige of that client in their offices and moves on as if that client or bid never existed. In his world, they’ve never lost a bid because if they didn’t get the contract then it isn’t a client they would have wanted to work with.
Besides the fact that I find it hard to believe that his company actually works this way (like they’ve never fired someone for underperforming or they only evaluate based on successes), I find it just bad advice. The reality is that most businesses need to do more learning from failure–not less.
As a consultant, I spend my life walking into companies where problems exist (and they exist in every company, including Bogusky’s). And I have yet to find any company that is really great at evaluation and learning from failure. Most business leaders are so busy trying to stay on top of all their work, that they rarely ever take time to stop and learn from their failures/missed opportunities/mistakes etc. Therefore, they tend to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. As the saying goes (slightly altered),
“Those who don’t learn from history are doomed to repeat it.”
Now, if a leader or manager is a blamer (i.e. a bad leader or manager) then that is a problem–but not with the idea of learning from failure. Rather it’s a failure of the leader/manager to carry out their job well. Likewise, if they’re creating a culture of fear vs. trust, then that’s a leadership issue, not an evaluation problem.
Great leader/managers know that learning from the past, both positive and negative, is essential to improving and optimizing the future. They understand that if there’s a problem, it’s not a person who’s the problem, it’s the system. And the only way to fix the system is to debrief and make sure that they and their team have learned from what happened so that the same problem isn’t repeated. No learning = ongoing problem.
So don’t listen to Alex on this one. Increase your learning from failure (and success). Invest more time in evaluating what happened so that you can both eliminate/minimize any problems and optimize/leverage any successes. It’s not an either/or. It’s a both/and. And in most cases, there’s not enough learning going on. So I’d argue that you need to increase your learnings so you can increase your successes!
To your accelerated success!
P.S. If you want to know the five questions you should always ask when evaluating, click here>>
Why Your People May Not Be Getting What Seems So Obvious to You
Posted by: | CommentsIf you’re like most leaders, you probably have a fair amount of frustration concerning your staff. You ask them to do something. You believe you’ve clearly communicated what you want them to do. And yet, for some reason, they don’t get it (or get it done).
Now, while there are plenty of reasons why this happens, one of the main reasons why (and one that you have complete control over) is this, “Because you’re thinking like you and not like them.” This happens all the time. In fact, it’s one of the most common conversations I have with my clients.
You want something done. Let’s say you want them to call on a client, or follow through on a task, or recruit a new employee, or ask for a referral at the point of sale, or put together the spring company picnic. The actual task is somewhat irrelevant. What is relevant is that you want them to do something.
In your mind, that task is very clear. But is it in theirs?
For example, using Myers-Briggs, I have a number of CEO clients who are classic NTs (intuitive thinkers who go by their gut and don’t like lots of detail and direction). However, most of them have senior leaders who aren’t NTs. In fact, a lot of their top teams are made up of SJs (sensing-judgers who don’t go by their gut and who prefer lots of data, details and direction).
You can see where this is headed, can’t you?
The NT leader doesn’t want lots of direction and details–so he doesn’t give them. When he says, “Angela, put together the company picnic,” in his mind, that’s all she needs. Why? Because that’s all he needs. The last thing he wants is a detailed list of what to do, where to get supplies, what communications to send out, who should be involved, where to hold the picnic, what activities to include or not to include, etc.
However, SJs crave that detail. SJs want to do things right. They like to follow policies and procedures. They don’t like to create from scratch. They get stumped and become indecisive when “everything is an option.” And because they have a leader who hasn’t communicated in a way that they get, they don’t get the task done.
Yes, life would be easier if all of our employees would do what we want them to do when we want them to do those activities simply because “we’re the boss and we told them, ‘Do this.’” However, fighting human nature is usually a losing battle. And as Dr. Phil reminds us, “How’s that working for you?”
If you want to produce results through your people and leverage their time, talents, resources and intellectual property (something which all leaders should want to do), then you’ll want to step back from your own personality and preferences and think about the people you’re communicating with–and then communicate in ways that connect with them.
Remember, what seems obvious to you is not always obvious to others–and that may be precisely why your people are not getting what you want them to get.
So try this. Take something that one or more of your employees aren’t “getting” or doing. Then pretend you’re them in their position and with their personality. How are you hearing the task differently now? Using that understanding, how can you better communicate what you’re trying to say in such a way that they’ll hear what you want them to hear?
Do this and you’ll be way ahead of other CEOs and leaders–plus your people will be getting way more done along the way!
To your accelerated success!



Shame on You Home Depot!
Posted by: Bruce Johnson | Comments (8)Now, before I explain the title of this post, let me give you some background. Unlike a lot of people, I’m not a home fix-it kind of guy. My father, who was a college professor, earned his way through college as a carpenter and is incredibly skilled in carpentry and home repair.
My brother is a programmer who’s picked up our father’s skill set at starting (and occasionally completing :-) home projects. And even my wife, who’s a nurse, has become a home fix-it kind of person. In fact, my father finally gave up a few years ago trying to give me tools for Christmas–and now gives them to my wife. So, my confession, up front, is that I’m not a Home Depot kind of guy.
That said, last Thursday, my father sent me a list of things he needed from Home Depot to complete the installation of a new sliding glass door at my home. Not necessarily excited by the task, I got in my car and drove over to the local Home Depot, with my list in tow, and entered “The Unfamiliar Zone.”
I call it that because it’s all out of my comfort zone. And in my previous journeys to Home Depot, I’ve rarely met anyone who’s been exceptionally helpful. Despite advertising to the contrary, most of the time I ask a question of someone at Home Depot, they point down the concrete pathway and says, “I think that’s on aisle … about halfway down on your right.” Thanks!
However, last Thursday, that all changed. As I walked into Home Depot (at the lumber entrance), a Home Depot employee was walking towards me and, probably noticing my pained look, asked, “Can I help you?” To which I quickly replied, “Absolutely!”
He asked, “What do you need help with?” I pulled out the list my father had sent me by email and said, “My father sent me a list of items he needs to complete the installation of our new sliding glass door.”
He (his name is Shadi–picture below) said, “Can I see the list?” “Absolutely!” As soon as he saw what I needed (chair rail, floor base and trim) he took hold of my cart (one of the lumber ones) and started walking me toward the correct area of the store. As we were walking Shadi asked, “Do you know the sizes of each of these? And what kind of trim or chair rail you need?” Etc.
Fortunately, I had taken measurements and photos with my iPhone so I could show someone what I needed (since I knew I didn’t have the right vocabulary). He said, “Perfect. I know exactly what you need.”
And then Shadi did something wonderful, he literally walked me to each of the three places where I needed to get what was on the list, pulled out what I needed out, cut the wood into the exact lengths I needed, and even helped me save some money. It was truly wonderful. In fact, I even said, “This is like having a personal shopper!”
So, why did I title this post, “Shame on You Home Depot!”?
Because when we were done and I had shared with Shadi how much I really appreciated everything he had done for me (and he did it rather quickly, by the way), I asked, “So, Shadi, do you have a comment card I can fill out on you about how terrific your service was?” He could only reply, “No!”
I continued, “Well, is there a manager I can talk with?” He politely said, “Don’t worry, it’s nothing. It was my pleasure.” As I walked to the front of the store, I kept looking for a manager to share my story with–and couldn’t find one. I asked the cashier, “Do you have any comment cards I can fill out?” She said, “No!” I said, ‘Really?“ And she said, “The only thing we have is a computer way down at the other end that you can log onto and fill something out.” End of story. Fortunately, Shadi had walked to the front of the store by then so I could grab a photo of him with my iPhone (which you can see below).
But shame on Home Depot for not making it easy for someone like me to brag on one of their employees! They should be collecting these stories and sharing them in every location all the time. Great customer service doesn’t just happen. You have to cast vision about it. And nothing speaks louder than a compliment from a customer about a great service experience.
So, how about you? Do you have a system in place that makes it easy to capture customer testimonies? Do you use multiple capture methods? Do you have some Shadi’s that you need to lift up? Do you regularly cast vision about great customer service? Etc.
At the end of the day, you and I don’t know Home Depot by their executive team. We know Home Depot (and every other business) based on the Shadi’s of the world–the people we actually interact with. And the same goes for you and your company. So who are the “Shadi’s” of your company? And how are you going to make heroes out of them today?
To your accelerated success!